Discernment Counseling

Discernment counseling is a form of therapy designed to grant clarity and confidence to couples in which one or both partners are considering ending their marriage. Unlike traditional couples therapy, which focuses on rebuilding the relationship, this form of counseling seeks to determine whether the relationship can or should be saved. Discernment counseling can provide insight and peace for partners who are questioning the future of their marriage. Please note that discernment counseling is private pay only and cannot be billed to insurance.

Professional Discernment Counseling to Determine the Best Path Forward

Our Approach to Discernment Counseling

Our therapists take a compassionate, yet objective stance throughout the discernment process. We desire both of you to have greater clarity about your options and confidence in your decisions. We will not attempt to persuade you to follow a path that doesn’t make sense for your relationship. Our aim is to help you determine whether you should end the marriage, attempt to repair it, or put the decision on hold.

While the first session is usually done with both partners present, we conduct most sessions individually so that each partner can receive support and fully explore their questions. The schedule and frequency of counseling usually consists of weekly sessions but depends on each couple’s needs.

What can Discernment Counseling Help With?

We often recommend discernment counseling when one partner is considering divorce, but the other partner wants to repair the marriage. This form of therapy is also appropriate for couples who are unsure if they want to stay together, are wondering if their marriage can be saved, or want help making an informed decision regarding their future. Some couples simply want to evaluate their marriage one more time before choosing divorce.

We know that an uncertain marriage can be a source of great distress. At Minnesota Counseling & Couples Center, we will help you evaluate the situation with wisdom and practical insight. We want to grant you the confidence and peace of mind you need to make the right decision for your future. Contact us today to schedule an appointment.